There are several types of gatherings that commonly precede and follow a wedding. Here's a list to get you started. Start jotting down your to-dos, then click around to get some fabulous ideas.
Engagement Party
Many couples officially announce their engagement at a social gathering specifically for that purpose. This may involve a full-blown party (perhaps arranged under another pretense), a restaurant dinner with family and friends, or a simple announcement at any other gathering (for example, asking the MC to announce an engagement at a mutual friend's anniversary party. It's a nice romantic mix, but get permission from the anniversary couple first). Of course, a formal announcement is not necessary. Another affordable option is mailing announcement cards.
Bridal Shower
This shower is typically ladies-only. Many brides enjoy the refinement of tea and finger foods. Most bridal showers today are "private" or "personal" showers--with gifts of lingerie--but in the past, other themes were possible, such as kitchen implements, candles, teas, etc.
Wedding Shower
While some brides want to keep this shower to themselves as well, co-ed showers are very popular. Guests typically bring gifts from the couple's registries. Games and food are a must.
Bachelor or Bachelorette Party
I'm not really going to touch this one. This type of party often becomes wild and unruly, and often involves activities that can cause martial problems later if your spouse finds out. My suggestion: get together with a few good friends, rent a movie, order a pizza, and pig out on cookies and ice cream.
Rehearsal Dinner
Usually held after the wedding rehearsal the evening before the wedding, the rehearsal dinner is a time to thank family members and those in the wedding party. Gifts for the wedding party are often given at this time.
Reception
The grand finale! A time to celebrate the new couple as well as the guests who support them.
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